Monday, September 09, 2019

Family values? (sermon from Sunday, Sept 8, 2019)


Readings:  Jeremiah 18:1-11 and Luke 14:25-35

Jeremiah was a prophet to the people of Israel during a very hard time in their history.  The kingdom was falling apart.  Greed, affluence and corruption at the top; suffering, oppression and powerlessness at the bottom; and an ever-widening gap between the two, weakened the kingdom beyond repair.  Its overthrow by foreign powers was imminent and inevitable.

At first the people thought God would save them, no matter how bad they were.  When that didn’t happen they began to wonder if God had maybe decided just to bring an end to them, because of how bad they had become.  Saviour or Destroyer were the only roles they could imagine God having.  But Jeremiah sees God in another light, working in a different and more creative way than either of those roles allows. 

In the Gospel reading, Jesus is beginning to attract a lot of attention for his healing, his teaching, and for the new kind of community he is establishing wherever he goes.  His opponents are making more and more serious plans to stop him.  And more and more people are flocking to him, expressing a desire to follow him, and to have for themselves what he and his disciples are having. In this passage, Jesus invites them to understand what they are asking, and what following him will mean for them.


To the large crowds that are starting to follow him, Jesus turns and says, “Whoever comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even life itself, cannot be my disciple.  Whoever does not carry the cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.”

What on earth does he mean by that?

Last week I received a batch of cartoons by email from Cam Cocks, and one of them seems to say something like this.

It’s a picture of Noah and his wife and two of a bunch of different animals on the deck of an ark.  Rain is starting to fall.  Mrs. Noah is inside the little hut built for her and her husband on deck, p0king her head out the window to remind her husband, “Noah, keep an eye out for mother!  She’s coming with us.”  And what we see behind her is Mr. Noah calmly and firmly kicking a ladder away from the side of the boat, with her mother – his mother-in-law, still standing on it just a few rungs from the top, her eyes wide open in shocked and mute surprise as, holding her suitcase in one hand and gripping the ladder with the other, she begins to fall backward away from the ark and into the rain.

What a vibrant image of life on earth as it’s lived out among us a lot of the time.  We look for, or we build an ark to get us through the deluge and save us.  And we draw lines between who is and who is not allowed on board, is and is not included in the family vessel.

We’re pretty sure, though, this is not what Jesus means when he says what he does.

For one thing – and it’s a pretty big thing, God in God-self gave up this way of doing things after the Flood.  In fact, that’s the point of the story the way it’s told in the Bible – that after the Flood, once it was over, and because of the Flood and how near it came to wiping out absolutely everything that God made, God repented of acting that way and vowed never to do that again.  Put away that kind of weapon forever – hung it up for all to see, promising that from that point on both God and the world would live together under the rainbow covenant of continuing, connected life.  Never again would God bring that kind of destruction; never again try to solve the problem of evil that way again.  Because that way of trying to solve the problem of evil was a greater threat to the life of the whole world than the evil within the world ever was.

So God gives up being the bringer of rain – the master of shock and awe, and God decides to become, among other more creative things, a potter. 

Like the potter imaged by Jeremiah the prophet.  In Jeremiah’s time the people are afraid.  Things are falling apart. The goodness of Israelite society is suspect.  Corruption and greed are rampant among the rich.  Suffering and powerlessness are the plight of the poor.  The kingdom they all want to love is coming apart at the seams and collapsing, and the people fear this must be the end.  The apocalypse.  The deluge.  They are now among those who are falling back into chaos, to be lost forever.

To which Jeremiah says, “No.  That’s not what God does anymore.  What God is right now, is a potter needing to remake what has been made.  The vessel we were, that God was shaping and turning to some good and beautiful end, took a bad turn.  Somewhere along the way we got tragically mis-shapen.  So what God is doing is breaking us down, returning us to a starting-point again, and reworking us, turning us, re-forming us into some new good thing, some new good shape and way of being.  Because that’s how God works.  God works with what is, and works patiently, lovingly, creatively, redemptively with all of what is.”



To which Jeremiah says, “No.  That’s not what God does anymore.  What God is right now, is a potter needing to remake what has been made.  The vessel we were, that God was shaping and turning to some good and beautiful end, took a bad turn.  Somewhere along the way we got tragically mis-shapen.  So what God is doing is breaking us down, returning us to a starting-point again, and reworking us, turning us, re-forming us into some new good thing, some new good shape and way of being.  Because that’s how God works.  God works with what is, and works patiently, lovingly, creatively, redemptively with all of what is.”


It’s hard for us to grasp this, and even harder for us to live this.  Because for a lot of our history and even now, the whole of what is – even just the whole of what we know, is often too big and too scary for us to feel secure in.  And that’s where home comes in, and your own little corner of the world and your own ark come in.  That’s where family comes in, and tribe, and the line between family-and-tribe and the rest of the world.

In Jesus’ time, and for most of human history, family was everything.  People had no existence apart from their family.  Family was their identity, their way of being known and of having a place in the world.  Family was their security, their way of being safe and cared for.  Family was their fate, their place on the social ladder, their rung and their role passed on and accepted from father to son and mother to daughter in the hierarchy of their society.  Family was also their politics and their world, with anyone who threatened any one in the family becoming the enemy of all in the family, and if ever a family or a tribe came to hate another family or tribe, that hatred was passed down and persisted a long, long time.

And even today, don’t we bemoan the way the world seems to be falling back – just when we began to think that maybe we’d got beyond it, falling back into tribalism, becoming a new real-life, high-stakes, all-or-nothing survival show version of “Family Feud?” 

Many people have pointed out that “Make America Great Again” is at least in part about making America great again for entitled white males, who in the way things were going felt a loss of privilege, maybe felt demoted from being captain of the ark and gatekeeper of the ladder.  And here in Canada in different places and ways across the country we have our own version of tribal politics and worldview.  Just this week Hamilton City Council had to decide whether or not to give a public platform in the Council chambers to Paul Fromm who proudly calls himself “a white nationalist” committed to ensuring the “founding peoples” of Canada are not washed away by “waves of mass immigration.”

And that kind of keep-them-off-the-ark theology and politics is so easy to fall into.  Like the new law in Quebec making it illegal for persons in public service to wear religious symbols, which was okay as long as it was symbols of white-European Catholicism, but all of a sudden not when it came to include hijabs and turbans. 

Or like all those little posts that get shared around on Facebook lamenting what seems to be over-generous social support for immigrants and refugees and less-than-adequate support for veterans, as though one is the cause of the other, and we need to choose between the two. 

Or like most of our election campaigns, where all the major parties appeal to whatever class-based tribal identification their polls tell them is the winning demographic, and then tell us how they will help us especially prosper, and the ones forgotten, not appealed to, still on the ladder as it’s kicked out sight, are usually the really poor, the perpetually powerless, and the voiceless – their real needs still not really addressed. 

The family, the tribe can be pretty brutal when they feel afraid, or threatened.  It can be hard to speak up against that.  If you do, it can open you up to all kinds of things.  It can make you feel vulnerable and alone.  Open you up to the suspicion of being somehow against the family and the tribe.

But Jesus says, “Whoever does not carry the cross – the cross of detachment from these things, the cross maybe of suspicion of being a betrayer of one’s own tribe, the cross of standing up at times against and outside one’s own circle for the sake of something bigger – whoever does not carry the cross that is theirs, and follow me, cannot be my disciple.”

You see, Jesus is gathering community and inviting hope and building a world on a different basis than family and tribe.  Like a good builder or a good commander, he looks realistically at what is needed to get the job done that needs to be done, and he knows the ways of family and tribe won’t do it.  Won’t be sufficient.  Will fall short at some critical point.

He understands the way of God the potter, and like his father he is committed to working with what is, and with all of what is.  No longer building arks to save a select few and let the rest drown.  Rather, sitting down at a wheel with the whole lump of creation turning before him, being shaped and reshaped all together in his hands, being broken down and given a new shape when needed and when the old shape no longer works.  Working and turning, turning and re-shaping, re-shaping and re-forming and re-integrating all that is, towards some constantly evolving and emerging and re-emerging good thing.


So I wonder if what he’s saying, when he tells the crowd, “Whoever comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, and so on … cannot be my disciple” is maybe two things.

One is an invitation to join him in building the world together on something more than, bigger than, better than just family and tribe – letting us know there are better, more appropriate and more helpful ways of resolving the problem of evil in the world than just building an ark and kicking the ladder away when we think it’s time.

And the other is an encouragement; not a judgement that if we don’t live and think his way we are lost, but instead a gentle reminder that when we honestly don’t, honestly can’t yet follow him and live fully into his way of making the world work, can't at some point act and speak and live fully as a disciple, we are not therefore thrown off the boat and thrown out of the lump of humanity that’s being worked with.  Rather, we’re still on the wheel, still part of the whole, still being worked on, shaped and re-shaped by life, by others, by God.  Still in process of potting and being potted.  Definitely still, along with everyone else, part of whatever God is making of us all.

Because God no longer sends floods and tells us to build arks to save just a few from the deluge.  Rather, God sits down at the wheel and works with the whole mess that’s called into being here together.  Patiently, creatively, redemptively shaping, re-shaping and re-shaping again what we need to be, to be good all together.

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